Just to clear something up... ^ that was with his ex.. not me!

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A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.

As a general rule I don't trust people who don't admit to masturbation. Either they're lying in which case, I don't want them too close to me, or they're completely unself-aware, which may be actually more dangerous. But cobalt adds a new wrinkle to my thoughts, but only because I know what it is to be with the frigid bitch, when your hand is the only one who knows your pain

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"My life has been extraordinary, blessed and cursed and won..."

I hope Pixies is printed in braille.

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Just follow the *bumps* PF..... :devilish:

John Grey (the Mars/Venus dude) once said in an interview for Playboy that he believes masturbating takes intimacy from a relationship but how am I supposed to believe a guy that was celibate for 13 years before he got married and turned into a sex expert? ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Well sounds to me like he was a closet masturbator.............Then he realised how good it felt.

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My stories
An erotic story
The instructor and student
Secretary learns how to take a dicktation
The story of sister stephanie

I am on my way out the door to buy some braille panties... :moon:

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Susan

i'll read for you or watch you "read" while i read all day :drool:

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sexy horny women fan...... :

When I was in school.. thank god for these religious right fanatics we had while growing up... I was made to feel so ashamed of it. Took a while to come to terms with the fact that this, indeed is not a bad thing.

First and foremost argument, if you need to spooge, it's better to relieve yourself than go do something that'll wind you up in jail along with the clergy from my aforementioned school... lol!

What gets left out of the arguement sometimes, though, is that masturbating is a learning, exploratory process. Sun Tzu said 'know thyself' and I'm certain any man claiming to be such an expert on war liked to jerk off over his chessboard.

See, knowing yourself means knowing what arouses you, what brings you to the edge, what you like and don't like. Plus you can build up your own stamina. For guys, the most important issue is building up your stamina because, face it, when you're a young wanker you'll spurt all over your boxers at the sight of boobies. For gals, it's all about learning what areas of your complex and often confounding pussy are the 'hotspots'. Then you can direct your guy when he's going down there, instead of being one of those cold bitches who lay with a bored look and give 'the tap' when you're ready to give up on him.

Again.....well said Jay. I concur with some of what you had to say. If a girl doesn't give some directions and just lays there, then there is something that isn't quite up to scratch. I mean we don't want to be the worst experience for them, and unless they give a few pointer's along the way, how can we be sure that they like it?

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My stories
An erotic story
The instructor and student
Secretary learns how to take a dicktation
The story of sister stephanie