This thread does not refer to the time in your teen years when you are figuring out where your parts are and what happens when you play with them. I'm wondering if other members have ever reached or seen someone they know reach a period in their lives where they have become more sexually aware and attractive to others possibly due to that awareness.

This is what got me thinking about it....

Mr. Lil is most likely the most shy reserved person I have ever known, yet over the past year we have been extremely communicative sexually and really delved deeper into exploring. In the past month there have been 3 very visible situations arrise where women have seriously came on to him in front of me. I love this because it sends him flushing and blushing like maddddd The fun part is that he responded to them, jokingly, sweetly, but without his usual reservation. To me it is as if he is exuding a new sexual confidence that I'm not sure he possessed before and others are taking notice of it.

Does this make any sense? Have any of you ever seen it our experienced it before?

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Mr. Osuche is still oblivious...but I know what you mean. I was kinda going for this angle when I posted this:

http://www.pixies-place.com:81/foru...exual+awakening

On a seperate note, I am so happy for you and Mr. Lil

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That is very exciting Lilith!

I think that when you are more sexual, you seem to be more confident with yourself. I have noticed that of myself anyway and people pick up on it.

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I think it was around July of 2003. I discovered Pixies, and some of the people here have encouraged me to see that there's a side of me that can be sexy. It does make a difference in the way I interact with others.

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i use to have a very low self asteam still do to a point but i found this site and another and started posting and i think it starts with just posting in a forum that help me then i took a shot and posted a pic or 2 and with th comments that built me self asteam so hi that ppl did notice my mates noticed i started chatting to more ppl even got my self a girlfriend cause of it i carried my self well and with pride but my girl had no real low self asteem not good 1 and thinks the way to build that up is to let guys have sex with her and she brought mine down and dumped me cause of it but its back up now and im building my confidence back i did some growing up last year but every year is a new learning lession but im not as shy as i use to be thanks to forums like these

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Yes I'm seeing it every day in Darogle. I just kick back and watch and see how he reacts. I see him smile more, walk prouder, and this gorgeous man is coming out of his shell like a lil kid who has just gotten permission to play with the fun people. I see him laughing and having a good time with out me, meeting people I don't know.It great! I hope he as a blast. I see hi let go of his inhibitions

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This phenomenon definitely exists.....it's the same reason that as soon as you get into a relationship with someone new, all of a suden every guy on the planet seems to want a piece of you.....the only times I've ever been whistled at on the street was when I'd just lost my virginity and I was feeling like a goddess!

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