What the hell kind of vibrator are you using? Anything that draws enough current to dim the lights or fuzz up the tv should run on gas and have a kickstart!

I say keep doing what you're doing. If you're upfront with guys in the beginning and consistent throughout the relationship then they shouldn't be suprised to see you move on if their needs change midstream. As far as determining what kind of guy is good for Mr. Rightnow vs Mr. LTC...well, I'm afraid there's nothing to do that in advance. Keen powers of observation and good communication is all you've got.

Hey, maybe if you incorporate some penalty? "If you get all on me, I'm gonna "

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Have you not played with the Oral B electric wunderkind?