yeah, that's it

It happens. Sure it happens. I'm currently in the third longest relationship of my life. What that means is...at age 46 I have only had 3 "real love" relationships. I think about the past two all the time. A song, a word or phrase, an action...anything can spawn it. At those times I think to myself...OMG! What if I stayed with him or him? And then I think...Look who I'd be missing out on (my hubby)! Geezzzzzzz, I'm glad I took the road I took!

Things DO happen for a reason...whether you believe in a supreme being or fate or you just trust that you know yourself best and have chosen the best course for you at the time! I choose to believe that we all make our own destiny...in every choice we make in every hour of every day! I just hope that I don't take that for granted and I try and make wise choices I can live with!

Would it bother you to realize/know that your "little kitten" thinks of her past relationship[s] too? I think it's inevitable!

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actually she's explained over and over that I REALLY am the best thing that's ever happened to her. All of her ex's were complete a-holes that was just trying to get a piece of ass. Kinda an ego builder for me knowing that kinda thing, ain't it.

I think this is the key phrase here...

I'm not sensing any regrets here, just a contemplation on the road not taken...

I think for someone who's been around for awhile, like me & most of those who've replied here is that you quit thinking about "what ifs" because you've seen enough of the "what did happen" to remove the mystery...

I've seen the ex-gf, & heard from her in crushing detail of her life in the last couple of decades, & however shitty my life may seem now, I can see that nothing was lost when the zig went zag

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I can see wanting different breast sizes. All I can compare it to is that I've dated skinny guys and stocky guys and would sometimes daydream of the other body type when I was with one.