I went thru that stage in my thirty somethings. After my first marriage I was partying hard and after being cheated on I didn't have a very good attitude. It was all about challenge to me. After I got what I wanted they became boring very quickly. Had lots of one nite stands. But I also learned alot about men. You'd be surpised how many men are attracted to a woman that doesn't want to be tied down as opposed to those who are looking for a home life. Believe me you're treated entirely different. It was fun having the upper hand but it was also lonely as hell.

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

I'm not into "bad boys and girls"
I am not at all attracted to mean, nasty, RUDE selfish people.
I know it surprises some in this forum to learn how picky I am about who I fuck. (I am using fuck as general term for sex here, including sexual encouters with other women, and brief "oral" relationships and one time quickies) especially when they think about how many sexual partners I have had, but I AM choosy!
But I do not have to consider someone as "relationship material" in order to have fun.
I am sure that I have had sex of some kind with people who were not nice, (there have been some situations that I am not going to go into here, where it was ok with me and my partner) but it was just sex!
During a date, if he (or she) bores me with opppresive, tiring, hostile stuff, then I don't care how attractive you are, or how many drinks I have had, rude mean boring people don't make for good sex.
Now!!!
(struggles to climb her soap box)

Why does Martha Stewart need to be hurt?
I know she is an icon for gay men and straight women, and most women I know just admire her sucess in a world not very friendly to business women, but really!
"Needs to be butt fucked"?
I mean, if the suggestion wasn't meant as hostile, but the idea that she needs to loosen up sexually, and not take money stuff so seriously, then I agree, but she has had her whole life ruined, and really needs to be left alone.

(looks down from her soapbox and sighs, such a long way down for a tiny person with a morning -after headache)

Wanda

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

WW---I,personally,have not liked MS for years,because she is so mean to people,+years ago,I read in a Sunday Magazine Section,of the newspaper,
that she gives nothing to any charity.I don't know if this is correct but I thought,at the time,"How can you have,that much money & not give to the
needy?"As someone here,once said,If you can't say anything nice,don't say
anything.The ONLY reason that I said this,was that you brought it up. Irish
P.S. My $.02.By the way,I thought that the,-Fuck her in the butt,comment,
was ,totally, uncalled for.That's just me!

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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)

Yep Yep Yep....prolly could fuck em..... and if they talked too much, well, hell, isn't that what gags are for?

The reason I said what I did about Martha Stewart is NOT because I want to "hurt" her...I just can't stand her, that's all. Too damn uptight...! The f'in' her up the ass thing...well, nevermind!

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