Does anyone enjoy being tickled?

Not that it "does it" for me, but I was curious.

Anyway, I've tied and been tied...each only once. I really enjoyed being tied but it would've been a bit more exciting had she been more enthusiastic. I did appreciate her willingness to try though.

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Haven't had the opportunity yet as I've not had a willing partner but one of these days I will, and I can't wait *LOL* Would love to try both but I'm naturally submissive!

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Well, I read "Of Human Bondage" once, but it wasn't quite what I expected...

Ok, smartass aside, we do like a little restraint now & then, from just holding her down with my hands, to using some scarves & whatnot...but it seems to kill the mood a little to have to dig out the appeopriate devices, & I'm not good at tying knots...we once tried her tying me up, but I don't think either of us enjoyed it enough to try again...

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myself I hate being retrained!--but love to lightly tie with silk ribbon...just secure enough to retrain the hands but not so to actually hols anyone down.

but there usually is lots of oral, ice cubes, lotions and the like

Nup!

My ties that bind are emotional, not material.

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As of yet, I've only been the tie-er. We improvised and used a set of leg irons as handcuffs. Then I held onto the extra long chain to control her arms. Was a lot of fun and a hell of a wrestlin' match! I'd definitely like to do more and also to be the tie-ee. We have plenty of things to play with when we do, several sets of handcuffs, the leg irons, a hobble restraint, and god only knows how many scarves, leather straps and lengths of rope we have laying around! As far as rules go, just the basic "if it ain't fun, don't do it" and stop when told to.

Well, found something I have never done!!! Have never tied or been tied. Yep, believe it or not...Miss Tease here has never done this! I am afraid one of us would fall over with a heart attack and leave the other tied up there for police to find..yikes! Yeah, I worry too much.

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^^^I have a very strong heart........ and very gentle hands! ^^^

And am always up for something new!

I did it once way back in college days.... I was tie-er..... and it was fun cause of my teasing nature.

I have been the tie-ee on almost every occasion. Scarves, ropes, pantyhose, and just self-restraint to list a few of my experiences as the tie-ee.

I can only remember being the tie-er at one or two of my many trips into the realm of what I would call a minor S&M. I don't think I could ever go down the hardcore road.

I think I like to be the tie-ee more than the tie-er, but I think I need to try being a tie-er a few more times before I make up my mind.

Welll...in that case........

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My wife has "tied me up" a few times but isn't into being tied up, herself. Actually, we seldom do much with bondage at all. Probably been a couple of years since the last time. Looks more exciting than our experience would suggest.

We enjoy bondage fairly regularly. She likes being controlled and so I am the tie-er, which I prefer. We usually mix in some fantasy play to go along with the bondage...this heightens the experience.

My favorite materials are velcro cuffs...I have a nice set for the wrist and the thighs that really works great. I blindfold when it suits me...sometimes I gag as well. She especially likes the gag when I am fucking her ass.

One rule we have is that if she says "stop", we stop. Also, no hitting or hurting.


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This thread just has me shivering. I've been tied up...well, I won't say a lot, but more times than I can count. It's not a regular thing, more a special treat. Although after reading this thread, I can sense that I'm going to start hinting again. I've been the tie-er once, and while it was fun....it didn't give me that same rush. Guess I just have a bit of a submissive streak in me.

We don't have any special gear....scarves and bathrobe belts work just fine. We've got a mask that I think he got off a night flight over the Atlantic that has been loads of fun. Other than that, it's all the standard toys....plus creative uses of household items.

No negative experiences, really. Well....I was tied up the night we discovered that I don't do hot wax well...but that's nothing to do with the bondage, just a phobia about fires/burns. Loads of positive ones. Each time different. There was one particularly memorable threesome when I let a couple I'd been fooling around with tie me up. Definately a postitive experience . And then there's the night my guy decided to play "guess what I'm using to fuck you, and you can cum..." Usually, I win after a few guesses. But there's something in this house that's wonderfully long, thin, and with a bit of a bend in it (I think) that I just can't identify and would dearly love to have in bed again. Never did find out what it was.

Rules....not loads. I don't like pain. I don't like loads of humiliation. But I love to be restrained, teased, denied, used, toyed with, and it turns out that I beg very nicely....turns us both on when I get pushed to that point. Definately a reason why we don't use a gag. Anyway, so long as it doesn't hurt me....no real rules. We did have a safe word ages ago, but I never did use it. In a pinch, I'm sure that if I shouted out "hedge hog" or something he'd at least stop long enough to figure out what was wrong.