funny, my answer to this question is all of the above ..... AND ....

women don't have to be aggressive when the men are being aggressive .... but, I will say that when I've wanted to cyber with someone I have taken the initiative .... mainly with positive results .... it's how I've made some of my closest male friends from the site.

Not all of the men on Pixies are aggressive PM'ers _ I for example don't feel happy PM someone out of the blue that often. I have PM some members but not with anything heavy. Maybe thats why my inbox is always empty LOL.

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