For me size isn't the most important. OK, so I like to satisfy girls with a big huge cock for them to grab onto, but there are important things.

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"Bend over and allow me to corkscrew you."

While I'm not quite as anxious as I once was about this, there are things that confuse me slightly.

Society seems to have an acceptance of women and men degrading men due to a perceived small penis size, yet, nobody doing it seems to consider the factor of vaginal elasticity. While I admit I haven't seen many episodes of Sex and the City, I saw Samantha express dissatisfaction at her partner's size many times, but not once did I see her consider that perhaps she was in fact too loose. And yes, while it is "only a TV show", many critics and fans have said that it has both reflected and encouraged a certain model of behaviour amongst women, so I do think it's relevant.

Also, are men supposed to read a statement like "I love position x, because the penetration is so deep" as "I would love a man with a big dick because he can penetrate me so deeply"? Call me cynical, but unless I'm reading things wrongly, there seem to be a lot of coy size queens. There are also some that seem to express their preference subtly by reacting not negatively to penises smaller than they'd like, but reacting far more positively to large ones.

I'm not trying to contradict or insult anyone here, I would just like dialogue and clarification on these points. Thankyou

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Just shows that we are all different. I have been with several women that found that my penis pounding their cervix was more uncomfortable than they could bear. So go figure.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

I suppose it boils down to the fact that your penis is visually obvious and so attracts comment in the same way that breasts and bums do. But then there is the physical sensation side which men just won't know about, and here is where the personal preferences occur when push comes to shove.

I've only ever heard men discuss a particular woman's vaginal size once, and this was when I was a teenager. Men don't generally want to upset women so this will remain a taboo area. Also there is the reflection on the man if he were to say that someone was very loose as opposed to there being no problem if a woman happened to be small and referred to a man being big.

I was very promiscuous when I was much younger and I had sex with women who were too tight for me and too loose for me (you can judge my size from my pic below). Too tight is worse than too loose, but whilst I didn't have any problem with the sex, because penetration is only one aspect, I have to admit that these relationships didn't go any further, though the friendships did.

I don't think that most women are conscious of their size relative to other women - how would you know? and frankly I don't think that it really matters. You're never going to see the guys off Friends discuss their partner's vagina size.

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Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

If a man has a big heart, I don't care how big his dick is. However, if I could have my wish, I'd take a big heart AND a big dick!

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~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
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Now that's a great attitude. Very nice, FL!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours