well, some of you might have seen one of my most recent posts and know that i found out the girl i went down on faked it with me. how will i confront her? i dunno; i doubt i will ever see her again. if i do see her again, i'll probably act as if nothing were different b/w us as she doesn't know that i know she faked. this was pretty much a...ahem...one night stand so, i won't worry too much.

I have never even thought about faking it as a guy..

My wife... well as far as I know has not faked it with me, there are many times when she does not choose to cum and then times where multiples never seem to stop.

Cumming is not the main event for us, the journey and bringing each other enjoyment the main thing, if we cum... well and good (which happens most of the time these days, but not always)

It is nice to see how we grown and mature, and dont need to lie about it as we are comfortable with each other.

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I have faked it, I'm good at it but will never do it again! Never!

I have faked it...often because it was important to him for me to cum -- and I was either not aroused enough, not in the mood, or he wasn't doing it right.

I would still do it --given sufficient motivation -- but I've also made him realize that I *like* sex whether I cum or not.

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Like osuche, it has been *far* more important to the men I've been with that I have an orgasm than it has been to me. There are just so many enjoyable aspects of a sexual relationship that it's kind of like whipped cream on your sundae--nice if it's there but still pretty darn good if it's not.

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I have not ever faked it. There are times I'm just not gonna cum go matter what. If its due to something he's doing or not doing I'll tell him. But thats ok, cause probably next time I will and it will be doubly great! Theres no point in faking it that I can see. Even w/out cumming its still good.

My ex used to fake it at times and, Yes I could tell. I didn't like it, if she wasn't enjoying it then why not tell me what she wanted done differantly. And yes I have faked it with the ex before and she didn't even notice, she must have been dead down there not to notice. Maybe that was the problem?

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lol
ive been known to be a faker LOL the most common time i fake is when im teasing hubbylol , ill sit downon th couch and if he wont ge me any "attention" illl fake one lol he gets the point REAL quick and i dont have to fake again for the restof the night. ill also do it when were ina press for time and just cant do anything bu ti know hes horny lol drives him nuts LOL. and very few times ive actually faked it when ive been over sick or over tired or overdrunk(it extremly hard to get me off when im almost passedout) cuz he wont stop till ive had at least one (somedays it turns out the session is only 5 min tho so that theroy sucks when ure a multiple) so ill fake just to be able to go to sleep LOL.
he can never tell and i usually tell him later that i faked but ive never faked cuz i didnt enjy it just so we cud sleep lol.
~nikki~

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I've faked it only a couple times and for a couple reasons. One, for the sake of time. Sometimes it's just going to take forever and that pesky "real life" thing calls Secondly, sometimes it just isnt going to happen, period. It's nothing that he has done wrong, but we all have off days at times, and he cares so deeply about my pleasure that he'll really take it hard if I don't get off. For me, an orgasm is a wonderful ending to something that is intrinsically great, so if I don't get off once or twice, I'm ok with it... The s/o on the other hand, isn't so ok with it, so this saves some hassle

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Never faked it.

Tut tut Lilith for your fake.

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drwinxp Dont worry been there, and even us guys do it. It is a bit disapointing when this happens but unfortunatly like Kate said "it just isnt going to happen" even the best of us guys cant get the girl cumming all the time. Keep your peker up....