Hi all. I've been a fan of the stories for a while, but now I have found a need to turn to you guys for some advice. I recently got into a relationship with a great girl, which, yes, would make it a lesbian relationship. So this weekend, we did oral for the first time. I got her to orgasm fairly easily, but I couldn't get off to save my life!

What the fuck?

It felt freaking awesome, and she just got much better as the weekend progressed, but damn it! I'd like to get off! For some background, in the last relationship I was in, it was my ex's first time with a woman, and she had some long nails, and I got a little...eh...hurt. I'm not sure if it's anxiety over that or what.

Yes, this is a very fresh relationship, so I know that it might just be that she's not hitting the right spots. I do get very aroused, the foreplay is great, everything is great, but I don't feel any orgasmic-building-up-ness.

Also, I do masturbate. Is it possible that I'm just used to my own touch too much? My current experiment is not to jack off until I see her again and see if that works.

Any ideas? This is kind of distressing. I can get her to come juuuust fine (apparently all those years of guitar playing got me something else too), and I'd like to give her the pleasure of being able to do the same thing for me, since I think it's important. But gah! Wtf?

Anyway, I also wanted to say it's great that people are open here and non-judgemental! I'm glad for the opportunity to be able to talk!