Well I have found her and spoken to her on the phone.

She is in a very difficult situation indeed. She went to help her mother who lives in CA after she developed a brain tumour and had it surgically removed. Her mother then needed chemotherapy.

Her father was very badly effected over his wife's condition and had a stroke that has left him paralysed down one side. She has moved both her parents to her little house where she is caring for them as well as her 2 children and working a part time job. She has had to drop out of her Uni course and is living to care for her family.

Life can be so cruel at times, all the things she planned to do with her life have been put on hold for the forseeable future.

Naturally it puts our marriage in doubt but I am going to see if we can work through it with her. She needs someone to give her some support and the person in my skin is the one who will try the best to do it. Just sent her some flowers. I can be patient she is the woman I love and now I know what the problem is I will do my best to help her through it.