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My girlfriend doesnt seem to have a very sensitive clit. We have sex alot, and she really enjoys it, but it can be quite hard for her to have an orgasm. We are both very open to one another, and always say if theres something we like or dislike. Although she can get a little stimulated with oral sex, she hasnt yet had an orgasm from it, and fingering doesnt seem to excite her at all. Theres really only a couple postitions that she can get off with. She say that she just doesnt feel much. I dont think this has so much to do with what I'm doing, although of course I take some responsibility for it. I've never had these problems (at least not to this extent) with other women. We are both very sexual people, and love doing all sorts of things. Its just frusterating for us both because its hard for us both to be pleased when having sex. We've even tried some sex toys, but none she has liked. She can get off masturbating, but even then its hard..she really has to concentrate.

Does anyone have some advice...or similar experiences?
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