What each person has said is right for them. For each of us, it IS the way we feel about it. Just like in the face-to-face world, I have had just one hell of a lot of fun with a whole bunch of nice people. I’ve come to feel truly close to a number of people here at Pixies and consider them as much a friend as any in my daily life. I also have experienced a very intimate and caring relationship here, just like the real world.

The important thing is that the people involved share honest feelings. You and your mate are ALWAYS the first people involved. I believe it’s up to each of us to find what is comfortable and pleasant for us in an adult world.

My prospective, for me, is that I’ve found more up-front and honest people here than I run into in the “real world” because we came here with honest common interests and without the pretext required before the commonality is established. I believe the unwritten guide here is, be nice to everyone and go with what is good for you. I’d like to live in the real world where this was the basic guide.

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