I have a few questions for the ladies. How often do you have an orgasm during intercourse – without touching yourself or using any toys? I’m asking because it’s really rare for me. Touching myself always works, I just don’t feel fully comfortable with that. It also helps to orgasm first through foreplay. Any suggestions for positions that work well for you or is touching just the way to go? I’d love to try a new partner to see if it’s him or me that makes it so difficult, but that’s not an option – he’s my soulmate. I’d love any suggestions.