Steph,

But isn't it like someone blaming an employer for not hiring them when they haven't even submitted a resume?

Funny you mention that. My search for a job and my search for a girlfriend have the same rate of miserable failure.

My resume is invisible to employers. I am invisible to females.

Employers call me up to tease me about a job opening only to find out I was never supposed to be called. Females tease me.

I get rejected by both employers and females for arbitrary reasons at the last minute.

I wrote off that I would probably never have a loving wife a long time ago. It wasn't until a few years ago that I finally accepted that I could be happy all by myself for the rest of my life living in a nice comfortable apartment with my books and my computer and just using my spare time for my hobbies.

Then I meet my ex-fiancee and I was happy for once. When I was 23 I had a good job, a wonderful fiancee and everything I could ever dream of. Before I turned 24, I relaize that it will all be gone one day and in May my fiancee hit me and it finally hit me that I will never again make the kind of money I was used to.

Now I am getting it at both ends. No job, no girl, no money, no hope.

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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.