Ok

A close friend and ex-lover, told me that -

Women around late 20's early 30's often chase men for sex and make it very very obvious. She had found that most men get scared and back off, even from "No strings sex", "Shag fests" etc

I have never experienced this, but i'm kinda thick and have missed many opportunities, only on reflection did i see that it was a lot more than I thought EG - amazing girly giving me tickets for the Marseille underground out of the blue on a beautiful, star-filled night in a hostel in Florence, A girl going out for a drink, asking me back to hers dumping her B/F on route offering me a smoke (hash) and me saying good night, another girly telling me about her sex life,,

Am I a bit dense - What are the signs? Except for the obvious and why are some men scared of sex??

Wildeye

Kinda puzzled