We moved to New Mexico and I had hopes of re-starting our sex life. Nothing. We've been here since the end of July. We've had a lot going on, but we rarely kiss and hug, anymore. My husband says he's totally tired all of the time. That he's worn out. He works a desk job, but it's stressful. I'm not working, but I am still unpacking boxes and scrubbing everything, yardwork, etc. I'm frustrated beyond belief. We never seem to be "in the mood" at the same time. I'm starting to numb my feelings down and just use a vibrator when I'm absolutely desperate. I'm missing sleep at night and have to resort to Tylenol PM about every 4th night. I'm pretty sure that if we could get our sex life moving, things would be a little better. Any suggestions would be appreciated.