
08-17-2003, 05:52 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto, Canada
Posts: 59
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Reading through the forums
My best friend met a girl through the Internet while playing one of those RPG games. Before that, me and him use to talk, have fun, and play sports and stuff. All of a sudden he began "chatting" through the net and I lost complete touch with him. The sad thing about that is Me, him, his brother, and a friend all moved in to the same apartment together. It seemed his personality changed, he became ignorant of others around him and began neglicting his chores and for the first time we began to have serious arguements, not just me and him but everyone in the apartment. So much so that i am moving away tommorow and most likely brake all ties with my friend.
Just so you know, after all that he did go and meet her and they formed a relationship that ended last week after 2 short months.
Now had he met a girl and needed to spend some time with her in our city, I would not have stood in her way or been as unreasonable to say spend time with me not her. But he became brainwashed as this was his first relationship ever (but not hers) and she dumped him hard. Now he has not told me this but i have learned from others and he does not want to share this information with me because he knows that he wronged me and put me in a bad situation.
Now what do I do? I am still leaving, but if and when he tells me, should i continue to be his friend, but in my heart of hearts, he broke our trust and our friendship, he let someone get in the way and I stood by him trying to get it through to him he was not on the right path and he did not believe me. And now that it is over he sees the light, but I am not as forgiving as I thought I could/would/should be. I am so hurt as to think, if me and him were to never talk again, I would be fine with it, what is wrong with me?
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