For all of those ladies who have children, how did you know when you were ready? And how did you discuss your decision with your SO?

One issue between my SO and me is children. He wants them soon and I don't feel ready...nor do I know *when* I will be ready. He doesn't want to get married until I commit to having kids, and I don't know that I can confidently do so.

A little about me...27 yrs old, been working for 6 years, professional job (one of my key concerns is giving up my career), and been with my SO for almost 9 years.


Ladies...any wisdom to share?

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