
05-29-2003, 11:41 PM
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A Little of Both
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Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Pa
Posts: 3,114
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Pain In The Ass
Hi All!
I've been feeling adventurous lately and I've been contemplating the whole anal sex thing. I'm a complete ass virgin...and have never been interested in it before..but lately find myself curious. My husband and I have always kinda joked about it as in...ewww...not for us....and he has never seemed interested. I brought it up to him, in passing the other day...and he didn't totally laugh at me...but he also didn't seem all that receptive. I myself have always had misgivings about it because of possible pain...and I've always just thought that area to be a "taboo" place for me.
Having said that that....I believe I've had a shift in thinking and would actually like to explore the idea...I find myself thinking about it in my fantasies...and liking the thought.
So...here are my questions...
1. Tips on "easing" into it (lol) and making it more enjoyable for the beginner...what to expect and such things..
2. Advice on opening my husband up to the idea.
Thanks Guys,
Eliza
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