My GF and I have just recently started having sex, and this is the first girl i have ever dated since i gave a crap about what might result from our actions that wasnt already on BC when I met her.. I have never been able to cum using a condom (have tried, gave up after 12 hours breaking for nothing but water, smokes and restroom) , and she feels bad that she cant get me off during sex, even though i tell her manually afterwards is fine, and for that matter safer on not having a child. So shes getting on Birth Control, and we are wondering how long of a period should we wait before having unprotected sex.. She is going on the pill, not the shot. I guess while i'm at it i could ask another question... On the subject of not bein able to cum w/ a condom, its hard enough w/o one.. I last on average not counting foreplay (which there is always a lot of) 4-6 hours before cumming, at times that is nice when i dont hafta work the next mornin, and im plenty refreshed anyways, but is there anyway to increse my response time for those times when i do hafta work or am tired already, or just runnin on a truncated time schedule??