I'm curious to know something...OK two people who are in a relationship for a couple of years where they got along pretty good spent alot of time together and the sex was mind blowing they have a fight over nothing major at all and all of a sudden it's over, finished, done. Is it possible for a person to just stop caring about someone just like that? To be treated like you never mattered to them and to act like you just plain don't exist? It is hard for me to understand how someone can just be like that. I know myself I could never treat someone like that no matter who it is especially if it is someone I was so close with. This is so painful and I am asking for advice because I can't look at it objectively being the one on the receiving end of this. Is it possible to just shut your feelings off for another person pretty much over night? Has anyone ever been in this situation and how did you deal with it? This is very hard for me to understand and it has completely changed me as a person. I don't think I can ever trust anyone again and that scares me. I just don't get it....I'm starting to think maybe it isn't me at all and that thought is even more scary to think I was with someone so intimatly for that long and they just never cared about me at all from the start which means it's very possible I was fooled the whole time and didn't know this person like I thought I did. I can't think of it any other way. This is very hard to deal with and my mind is completely blown away. Someone please feel free to enlighten me.......

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