01-08-2003, 02:20 AM
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Pixies Den Mother
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: No-Hockey Land, dammit!!
Posts: 11,897
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What's With You Men, Anyway????
I know every man is NOT like this, but it seems from conversations I've had that there are enough for it to be considered common behavior.............................
What makes men behave like this:
Tonight my husband and I were supposed to be heading North, back to Michigan to pick up some of our belongings and bring them back down to Missouri in just a few days. He never said what time we'd be leaving, although I asked more than once.
Then when it was getting to be around the time we had discussed leaving, although it was never definite, he just went off to bed. I was certainly surprised! I asked him "Should I just stay up, so I'll be ready if you get up later and want to leave?" He didn't answer at first so I waited a while and asked a second time. Then he said "I don't care. You can stay up if you want to. You can go to bed, too. I don't care what you decide to do."
I then told him that I'd just like to know so that I can be ready. And that I'd just like to know what's going on......IF anything is going on. He never answered. Just went to sleep.
Many other times I'll ask if he wants to go to a certain place, or do a certain thing, or eat at a particular restaurant.....all I get is a shrug of the shoulders. Which says to me "I don't give a shit!" Or he'll just say "I don't know" or "I don't care."
Why is it so hard to make a decision?
And why, when you've made that all-important decision that affects more than just yourself, why is it so DAMNED difficult for you to inform your S/O of that decision??? How do you expect us to be able to read your mind??? And why should we have to??
Can anyone explain this??
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