I'm new to the site, so I'm kind of lost on what to say here. I've been reading through a lot of the threads here to get the idea. Hell, what can I say, I'm new to all of this. I think the last time I was even in a chat room was in late 1999 when I had WebTV.

I currently live in California, and have driven throughout this entire country, and lived in quite a few places, including one other country where I was about a foot taller than any man there. No matter where I go I find that I'm lost and alone. I'm 34 years old, female, never been married and never had a "real" relationship. I have no children, no boyfriend, no sex (dammit), and my very best friend in the world told me to check this site out. I want more than anything to find the right person to spend my life with, but in the meantime, here I am....on vacation and exposing myself to the internet society when I should be presenting myself to the local people. I highly doubt the man of my dreams is in my monitor & keyboard, but then again, he's not naked in my bed either.

I say that I'm not having sex, and though that is true, it's not because I don't like sex. I'm pretty horny and ready to go all the time. It's more that it doesn't seem readily available to me. Most people I meet are married and looking to have a fling on the side, but I want my own husband, not someone else's. The sex that is available from someone who isn't married is from men who are about 10-years younger than I, and they're not looking for a meaningful relationship. Is there really such a thing anymore or is it a thing of the past?

Anyway, I just wanted to give you all a big hello from Cali and I hope to enjoy my time getting to know all of you in here.

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