My first sexual experience wasn't a real good one. We drove over to our local baseball field and attempted in the backseat of a tiny escort. My soldier never arrived to the scene that night, giving me a real attention problem since. I've overcome the embarassment of that night, and have succeded in getting the troops to battle. But There are still times where I lose stiffness due to too much thought, ect. I wanted to know if any guys have any advice on how to battle the fight from within, whether this can be considered normal, and any girls if they have any thoughts on the subject.