Hello everyone. Here is my problem. First off, i have been married for almost 28 years. Things are really good except for this. My wife refuses to masterbate for me. She says that she just never did when she was younger. She loves it when I do it for her but she just won't do it for me. It really bothers me that she can't or won't preform this act for me. I am very comfortable masterbating for her and she loves it but she will not return the turnon for me. It makes me feel unloved because of this. She says she never masterbated when she was younger for whatever reason. It is really starting to drive a wedge in our relationship. I explained that I just want to make her happy. I'm 48 and not getting any younger and I just want to enjoy our sex life while we are still young enough to do so. I would do anything that she asks but she just will not open up to me. It's very depressing and I'm at my wits end on the subject. She keeps telling me that she is happy the way things are but I guess I can't accept that. What is so wrong with me. Am I wrong for wanting her to do this. I'm so confused and I just feel so unwanted because she can't open up for me. I guess I'm just looking for some other opinions on this please. Thanks for any input. linzwa