I couldn't agree with you more, when you say that the piece of paper makes not a scrap of difference. And I think a lot of people still get married because they want a wedding (women are more guilty of this than men) which is one of the many reasons we got married in such a low key way. Getting married was not important to us....being married was, and that was our choice.

And you're right when you say that so many people don't respect their marriage vows it seems a waste of time them making them. Being married does not make a relationship any more sacred and in many cases it does seem to be a license to stop making an effort to make the relationship work.

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