OK, heres the story. I recently found out that my fiance (who is straight) had sex and did a bunch of other things with his best friend a few years ago-more than once. This was a long time before he and i started dating...
but after he told me i couldnt help but feel extremely jealous. I mean, the thought of him with another guy was actually arousing until i found out about this. Now whenever he wants to see or talk to his friend i get really jealous and mad at him and it always starts fights.

I dont want to feel like this, i know he was just "experimenting" and that he wouldnt do it again-at least not without telling me, and that it was really nothing, but i cant help it. I dont want this to continue because its his best friend, and lately he hasnt been talking to his friend because of me (i didnt ask him to, hes just doing it to avoid confrontation) But i dont want him to have to stop talking to his best friend because i have some issues with all of this... know what i mean?

So what i want to know is, am i overreacting? how can i quit being such a bitch about this????