I've recently become involved with a lady who isn't as sexually experienced as I am. I know I'm a bit on the rough side so it's not surprising she commented on it once or twice. The problem I am having is that she feels there isn't a connection. The sex is good but she feels bad that she comes faster and more fequent than I and that she may not be doing something right. How can I convince her that she isn't and deal with the problem we've been having? Also how would you suggest she get over her inexperience and learn to branch out into new areas of sexual expression?

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Introduce her the the Pixies Site let her explore for herself
if she is looking for answers, they will be here somewhere

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Knowing you, stud, she is pretty young. Give her some time and space. Tell her that you are not keeping score. Maybe give her one night/day all about just her pleasure and ask for one in the same. I think the more you tell her during sex/ sexual contact that you love what she is doing to you, the more she will begin to believe it.

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Lilith: Any other time you'd be asolutely right about her age but this time she's not that young only six years younger this time.

Thank you for the advice Bilbo and Lilith.

aw the great fear of being bad in bed, yes I've seen this quite a bit myself, seems to be a common theme, particularly in younger females I find, that they seem more preoccupied with orgasm count than just enjoying themselves, I find the best thing is just to constantly encourage them that no one is keeping score lol, and personally guys LIKE it when the girl cums more than them lol

oh and just for the record just cuz the girl cums and the guy doesn't, doesn't mean the guy didn't like it!

Concubine: Thank you Concubine. I don't know how many times I've had to tell her that. It was toe curlingly GREAT.

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