LOL Not at all, incitatus. I introduced my b/f to pixies and he's in the other room putting an IKEA couch together while I surf here.

I am sorry guy's but I am going to have to dissagree with you all. Personally from my own experiences with my current partner ( as u may see by my post's ) I do consider it to be cheating.

But as what point of sex talk or flirting harmlessly and as was meantioned, how do you know when you have crossed the line??
I have had a few debate with other Pixies mebers about this and at the end of the day I beleive that it's no right, it is wrong of a s/o to flirt with another member of the oppisite sex, but at the same time, I do not consider it so dreadfully harmful to be considered cheating

In regards to talking about sex with the oppisite sex. There are two roads that this topic could go down. As, for example in my situation with my partner and the troub;e I was having wih him, I beleive that have a general sex chat with a member of the oppisite sex is harmless and there is nothing to it, but at the same time I beleive that the line is crossed when one party starts going into intimate details of there body, sexual fantasies and to the endless point in where in becomes into cyber/phone sex. Now I beleive that, that is cheating.

I also beleive that when your s/o is talking with another person about sex I do not beleive that it is right for your s/o to go into details of your own sex life for example, what positions do you do?, fave positions? I don't beleive that is cheating but at the same time, I do not approve of it.

Sorry it has to be said... I find it interesting that you don't approve, but you don't leave him either.

Wow... a long ago post... so long ago that the only reason I know it was mine was my name attached to it. LOL... Have I really been around that long??? Time flies when you are having fun...

Nice to see that the debate continues....

yes I do see where your comming from as i was expecting someone to come back and say something about this, but since then my s/o and I have since worked through things she is out of the picture as she is o/seas in Malaysia and living there now.
He has has deleted all emails and contact's that he has of hers and even sent her a goodbye letter as I wrote in my last post in which I attached to my last thread if u cared to read........

So then looloo (please don't feel attacked except for the fact that you brought this thread up from DEEP in the archives and I feel you are still hurting)...

Answer me this...do you have faith and full trust in him now? And...are you keeping with the pregnancy?

I ask because I care...not to put you on the spot!

PM me if necssary!

*hugs*

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You mean peole have cybersex? I am so shocked... if anyone could possibly think this is acceptable ...and you are female then you can message me on morningsun12345 on yahoo messenger.

Shocked i tell you.

Oh, and don't forget to have your cam ready.

Did i mention i was shocked?