taken from pussycatmagazine.com

ts inevitable, whether you've been married for 10 years or in
a long term relationship for 5, sex gets dull. All too often
women fall into the role of caregiver, maid and cook while
allowing their sex appeal and desires to fade into the past.
This can also carry over to the significant other who as well
begins to think of passion as ancient history. Every woman is a
siren, a Venus, a being of erotic nature. Sometimes, releasing
this inner vixen is all that's needed to spark something new
and remind your man that you ARE a goddess.

1. Buy Yourself A Sex Toy. Whether it's a vibrator, dildo or
both, pick one up and surprise your man by pulling it out
during your next interlude. Let's not forget girls, we don't
have to get invited to a sex toy party or show up at a back
alley adult store anymore. If you have access to this article,
you have access to sex toys. There are multitudes of trusted
sites online just waiting to discreetly ship you a toy in plain
brown paper packaging.

2. Rent A XXX Movie. Rent or buy an adult film. If you don't
feel comfortable walking into the adult section at your video
store, why not consider renting a video off the internet? There
are many sites that offer hassle free adult movie rentals.
Chances are, if you pop in a porn flick instead of watching The
Notebook again, you'll get a preferable reaction from your man.
Plus, he'll be more aroused knowing that you picked it out!


3. Don't Do Lingerie…Do Latex! That's right girls, latex isn't
just for the fetish crowd anymore. Lets face it latex is
fabulous, slick, glossy and skin tight. Get daring and show him
just how kinky you can get.

4. Get Stimulated. Now I know how hard it can be to "get in the
mood" at the end of a hard day. Ergo my reasoning for suggesting
you give an arousal, or, stimulating gel a try. This isn't lube,
this is a gel that only requires a few drops to work. It
enhances your sensitivity and has you ready and willing in no
time! Every woman I know who has tried it has never gone back
describing these gels as giving them the most intense orgasms
they have ever had.

5. Write An Erotic Story. Have you ever woken up in the morning
completely aroused from a dream you just had? Write it down!
Even if you're not a writer make notes: what was said, what
happened, how you felt, locations. If you're one of those
people who doesn't remember dreams, create characters and have
them live out your wildest fantasies. When you're done, be sure
to leave your writings somewhere you're sure he'll find them!

6. Go Old School - Literally. Dig out your old high school
uniform (or buy one online). Forgo the underwear, replace the
knee highs with thigh highs and the penny loafers with
stilettos or high heels. Catch him off balance by wearing it
around as you cook or do laundry. Be sure to bend over offering
a peek every now and then.

7. Buy HIM A Sex Toy. Now I know you're thinking "What!!?" but
hear me out. First of all, watching him masturbate can be a
huge turn on for many women. Secondly, studies show, the more
men masturbate, the easier it becomes to maintain control over
an erection. This is good for us, especially when coupled with
suggestion number 4 on this list. Can we say multiple orgasms?

8. To Have & Have Knot. Get out the ropes and tie him up in a
chair or on the bed. Tease him any way you want. Strip for him,
lick him up and down, do anything except give him what he wants.
Let him know that you're in charge and he is at the mercy of
your feminine wiles. By the time you're ready to give in he'll
be so turned on he'll remember the night for weeks. Next time,
switch roles.

9. An Evening of Indulgence. Prepare an evening full of
aphrodisiacs. Light some scented candles and melt some
chocolate. Meet him at the door wearing only pearls and holding
two champagne glasses. Spend the evening naked feeding each
other chocolate dipped strawberries, raw oysters and drinking
champagne or wine.

10. Stop Being Self Conscious. If, while reading this article,
you thought to yourself "I could never do that.", then stop!
The only thing standing in the way of you withholding your
fantasies and desires is you! If you think your husband or
boyfriend would never do those things, give it a try first.
You'd be amazed at what two people who have submitted to a life
of "blah" are capable of surprising each other with. Turn "blah"
into "ah".

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And darkness overcame until she screamed alone in vain.
Oh how lovely as she gasps, yet so innocently sleeping.
Bullet to the head... soon you'll be sleeping
Pull this trigger to your antidote
She had the eyes of an angel with a heart like a traitor
We always knew you'd go up in flames
We always you'd go out with a bang

The first step is to join Pixies!

All the rest fall into place very nicely.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Yyyyy-uppppppppppp!!!



DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

1. Join Pixies

2. Rinse and repeat

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I think she hit it on the head there!

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

Um...for the record...



rinsing is optional.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

You forgot to lather first

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

lather n lube

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And darkness overcame until she screamed alone in vain.
Oh how lovely as she gasps, yet so innocently sleeping.
Bullet to the head... soon you'll be sleeping
Pull this trigger to your antidote
She had the eyes of an angel with a heart like a traitor
We always knew you'd go up in flames
We always you'd go out with a bang

YES!

100% agreed

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And darkness overcame until she screamed alone in vain.
Oh how lovely as she gasps, yet so innocently sleeping.
Bullet to the head... soon you'll be sleeping
Pull this trigger to your antidote
She had the eyes of an angel with a heart like a traitor
We always knew you'd go up in flames
We always you'd go out with a bang

Worked for me.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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moi aussi

__________________
Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

No, moi Aussie.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Good point.

moi yankee

__________________
Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.