In a healthy long term relationship what are some things that you shouldn't fantasize and masturbate to?

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A risk assessment must be carried out at the very least before hand.

I believe that masturbation and fantasies are a matter for you, your head and your hand. I would not want to label any fantasy as 'wrong' since they rarely reflect on any real life feelings towards your partner.

Attaching guilt to fantasies is probably very unhealthy, however being aware that certain fantasies should always remain in that realm is healthy, sensible and moral.

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Don't worry about what you fantacize about. There enough other things to obsess about. Fantasies are your mind's way of playing. They're fantasies, not actualities. Enjoy.

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I think anything goes.

Just keep fantasy seperate from reality!

They don't always mix well.

souls_cry2000,

Fantasize about anything you wish.

Don't confuse fantasy with reality.

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Jseal, I never confuse the one with the other. I however find certain images disconcerting at times. Especially considering my deep love and affection for Sexychrissy

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souls_cry2000,

Fair enough; don't fantasize about those images.

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Your fantasy is yours and yours alone. It should be everything you want it to be. You create it to please yourself and only you.

That's when it's time to change the channell...

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I guess I'm confused. Are these images being masturbated to being viewed by you or her? If it's you don't use those images. If it's her it's her fantasy and you're approaching jealousy of you're trying to tell her what she can and cannot look at and be turned on by. This is bad.

Fantasizing about anything is pretty much OK as long as they remain fantasies. There are of course fantasies that should never ever be acted on.

Ex's.... cuz if you are... there are issues that may need to be addressed... just my opinion.