But I was thinking the other day. Are there occassions where size does make a difference?

Let me explain.

I would think (and I could be very wrong here) but the visual appear of watching a well endowed gent jerking off would be a bigger turn on than a guy who's cock is completely hidden by his hand.

Conversely, a small dick would be better when trying anal for the first time?

What do you all think? Or am I crapping on for no good reason?

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welllll.....it was nice that i lost my virginity to a "short dick man" LMAO

it matters for anal

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Yes, I have to say, Fussy and I have not experimented with anal since his width may well cause a problem for both of us. I once managed to tear his foreskin during vaginal sex, so God only knows what damage we could do to each other with anal!

Also, certain positions can hurt like hell because of his proportions....I said to him the other day that I'd be happy if he were an inch or so shorter. I miss being able to grind my clit against a man's pelvis, without feeling like I'm being jabbed in the stomach.

The advantage of a large penis is that it (for whatever reason) seems to give a man more sexual confidence which can make him a better lover. It can also look very impressive in pictures, but I can honestly say that looking at a large penis does not make me more aroused than looking at a small one. And when I watch a guy masturbate, I'm looking at the tension in his body, the way his balls bounce up and down, the movement of his hand back and forth over his shaft, the look on his face the closer he gets to cumming, his chest heaving as his breathing gets laboured and then the glorious finale as he cums all over his hand/arm/stomach/chest. Looking at the actual penis is secondary to all of that.

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I'm not an expert on penises since I only have experience with my own. But I've heard some women express the oppisite of what was stated there. I've heard more than one complaint from a woman that big dicked guys can make horrible lovers since all they think they need to do is pound away with their big dicks.

OMG! ouch! torn foreskin sounds excrutiating! Mayhem and i tried anal, and although i have done anal before, he only got a few centimeters in and i was sobbing in pain. I want to try again (Lord, do i ever!) and we have worked out a few stratagies to make it work. But good lord, the man's big.

second ya there Sistah! sometimes it feels like Mayhem's cock is trying to push out my belly button! although, i wouldn't trade his penis for the world, because it is attached to the man i wholeheartedly love!

Whew! Did it just get hotter in here!

Lou, I love your mind!

Jude30 - Yes, I have to agree that in some cases the opposite can be true as well, which is why I said the extra confidence 'can' make him a better lover.

Lizz - thanks honey! Your mind is pretty damn great too!

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SIZE absolutely does matter. In my first anal exerience, if I'd've let my big man in me, he'd've torn me. His tall skinny friend had a short skinny weeny. That's the one they put into me.

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Well, I used to wish that I had an extra inch (I'm 6-6.5"), though I have good thickness. My wife says that I am too big and hurt her when we do positions where deep penetration is possible.

So...I suppose that I do not want that extra inch after all, especially since she likes it when I pound her pussy hard and fast.

I like a big, thick cock. But unless the man knows how to please me, it's no good to me, big or small.

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