so hey why is it so important to guys to have a virgin if they can? I mean is it really some big deal to have a virgin? Wouldn't it be just as nice to be with a girl who wasn't a virgin and not entice virgins to have sex?? Just asking! let me know as soon as possible, here, or at see you later!

this is prolly the last board youll find that prefers virgins to experience.

nor are ya likely to find a bunch of guys hunting for virgins around here

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It can be important for girls too ya know (guys being virgins).....not me personally i dont care either way

My best mate back when had a thing for virgin guys....wouldn't sleep with em unless they were either *LOL*

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I think some people get a kick out of being someone's first...it makes them feel special. Also, the fact that a virgin can't possibly compare a man's performance to anything else, means that some men may be more confident and suffer less performance anxiety than with a more experienced partner.

Then of course, there are just the lazy ones who thinking sleeping with a virgin is a good excuse not to use a condom.

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never thought about it like that Loulabelle. thats some good shit right there.

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tho it is kinda nasty when ya think about it.

If you just lay there and let a man fuck you without a condom,you're just as lazy as he is.Funny how women want to be on an equal plane with men(AND THEY SHOULD BE) but get to play the soft,vulnerable bunny at their leisure.

Lil'Angie...if virgins weren't "enticed?" into sex the world would be full of "Grapes" and Cherries" masturbating and eventually dryin' up in the sun.

just wanted different answers, sorry to biother everyone.

You'll get more answers as time goes along...you only posted the thread this morning, and most of the Americans aren't even up yet!

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Yeah, it's the American's fault. Always is :P

Alasse - you got the contact details for your friend? I might have a little job for her to do

As for why virgins are supposedly desirable - never really thought about it but I think there are probably two angles to it.
On one hand, there's something 'pure' about a virgin - corrupting her is a kind of guilty pleasure. It's nasty, taboo - it's special.
And then there's the perceivd physical advantage. Virgins are tighter, and tighter supposedly equals good.
And also (ok, three angles to it), virgins tend to be younger, and youth means virility (up to a point, of course. I'm not talking kiddies here). I don't know if a 40 year old virgin woman is any more sought after. But an 18 or 21 year old virgin? Every second website's got 'em.
Another thing (ok, four angles), as Loulabelle said it's 'special' to be someone's first. Probably a competitive thing, I got her before anyone else did.

Sheesh, I never expected the Spanish Inquisition!

Buit in any case, as Matte suggested these forums tend to be frequented by a more sophisticated kind of person. People here tend to be smart enough to realise that a person's sexual history is just one part of their overall sexuality, and an even smaller part of their overall identity.

Experience goes a long way, but attitude goes much further.


Ok, well that confused the almighty crap out of me.....

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you can talk to me tonight on Gmail if you so choose, my computer has been weird so it's going into the shop and I plan to talk as much as i can to anyone who will listen and give me GOOD advice. thanx, Angie!

My feeling is that most men feel it is a conquest, a rite of passage and also gives them bragging rights to bed a virgin. I myself never had the occassion to be so lucky, but then again I was a virgin until I was 19.

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"just wanted different answers"

Perhaps you should have asked a different question.

Virginity as a sought after commodity goes back to the dawn of time, where the boss ape got the jollies.

In the dark and middle ages, the feudal Lord had the task of deflowering the local virgins, known as

"droit de seigneur", the right of the Lord.

It's a power/dominance/ego/peer bit of bullshit used by people to put a bit of assumed importance into their lives.

Personally, I feel that if a woman hasn't a clue about what she's doing, the chances of either of

us enjoying ourselves is slight.

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