Has anyone ever bet or negoitiated if with their spouse for a specific sex act? For example, I'll let you go to such and such if you give me a blow job later or something like that?

It's always been a curious idea to want to try, but seems like a direction I'd not want my marriage to go, but perhaps once in awhile...thoughts? (Incidentally, I'm not lacking for the things I want in the bedroom so maybe that is where my lack of push comes from etc).

Hmm...the day my man 'let's me' go out somewhere, only if I give him a blow job is the day I walk out and never come back!

But besides that, I don't think it's a good idea to use sex as a bargaining tool. I have been in that kind of situation in the past and it's not healthy.

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I'd say every so often, that'd be good fun. But be careful about doing it too often - "I'll go down on you for an hour if you do all the housework next month" can get pretty worn.

What I've come across more commonly, though, is the "Bet the Lakers win this weekend, if I win you give me head and if I lose I go down on you" type bets. I reckon they can be LOTS of fun!

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Mr. LAW and I actually do this all the time. Not the "i'll get you off if you do this" variety of bet, but I'm a huge footbal fanatic, so we bet on games. It's a big turn on to be out at a sports bar or somewhere public where the game is on, get into a discussion about the winner and end it all with a "wanna bet?" (complete with cocked eyebrow and nasty sexy grin of course)

I once made my wife a sandwich in exchange for hand release. I think it was the novelty of the idea that made it really fun. Honestly, I was shocked she agreed and even more shocked that she kept up her end of the agreement! lmao

To me, everything's about the attitude. Bartering for sex can be a fun way to make mundane chores more fun...or it can be demeaning & pitiful. Depends on your attitude. Not something I'd want to incorporate into our relationship on a regular basis though.

Btw...it was an awesome sandwich!

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Never done the sex for a bet, but the mrs. did offer me a bj once if I would go to the store & get her a carton of cigs...I think I would agree that if it's done in a spirit of playfulness, it could add a little spark to one's relationship, but if it's an actual bargaining chip, that could be toxic...I like Lilith's approach, there's a sense of something that would happen anyway with or without the wager...

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Yep done that....not often though

Have also negoiated and he's still to collect i might add *LOL* with someone other than my spouse

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