Sorry if this doesn't make sense.

For a long time I was convinced I was hideously ugly and boring. I'm no longer convinced of this, but I'm having problems reconciling this with my apparent inability to attract women. So, what is it women are looking for? And where are they looking? Cause I can't find any that will give me much more than the time of day, and those that will don't want to be anything more than a buddy - which is nice, but that still leaves a hole.....

Anyway, I'll shut up now and leave myself open to any suggestions you might have.

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I want to know everything
I want to be everywhere
I want to fuck everyone in the world
I want to do something that matters

Many of my buddies have become more over time

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I think there can be such a thing as wanting it too bad. I find that I pick up the most men when I'm not even looking for a relationship...and I've had several guy friends tell me the same thing.

Every woman is looking for something different -- it's tough to generalize other than good hygene (which I know isn't a problem). You have a dark sense of humor -- maybe you're looking for the lady who really appreciates that?

Good luck, my friend. ((((Belial))))

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Congratulations on your change of how you look at yourself!!! Allow yourself to adjust to that in as many ways as possible, it will send out a more positive vibe to the people around you and I think you might find it amazing how things begin to change .... in the meantime, I'd just like to say that I'm very pleased for you that you've managed to begin to see yourself in a better light ... that isn't an easy transition and it takes work! Great job!!!! (((((Belial))))

I think fzzy hit the nail on the head hun.

Women want to feel good about themselves (just as men do) and so tend to gravitate to people who make them feel good. That's why a positive attitude is so important and it's something that feeds off itself. The more positive you are, the more positive those around you are, which in turn makes it easier for you to feel positive too.

It's great that you're starting to realise that your self perception has not been very accurate up to now.....keep working on it, and keep being prepared to step outside of your comfort zone in terms of social experiences and your confidence will grow and grow.....you'll also learn more about the kind of people you like to be around and what kind of woman you're looking for. Most people will tell you that finding someone who's attracted to you is the easy part.....finding someone who's just right for you is harder, but I have every confidence that it will happen hun. And as others have said here, it usually happens when you least expecting it.

If all else fails, save up for the airfair to England sweetie....I'll hook y'up.

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"Time flies like an arrow -
Fruit flies like a banana"

M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

You should have PM’ed me. I could have saved you all the worries.

You ARE ugly!

All guys are ugly! There is no way any guy can ever be in the same universe as a woman when it comes to being “appealing” to the eye, so give up trying to be “attractive”.

And that’s not the only difference by a long shot. In spite of “Gender Equality”, they are a different species. Equality is only about the functioning in the shared, outside world we live in. It’s the powers inside of them that are the REAL difference. They have what is magical powers to us.:dizzy: They can feel and sense things about you inside, in the same way that the outside of them cause reactions in us.

The best we can do from an appearance standpoint, is to not be repulsive. They can ‘see’ what you’re feeling, so you have to do the things that ‘feel’ good for you. When you’re super clean and neat, you ‘feel’ good. ……………… They know it! When you ‘feel’ clever or comical, …they know it! Not when you’re just horny, but when you ‘feel’ really sexy, …they know it. When you have your act together and are ready for the world to try and screw with you, …they know it. And when you feel like a pathetic piece of garbage, they know that too! They know all that shit!……… Even when they don’t know they know it.

So the best thing to do is to cut your own best path through the woods and pay attention. They find you….. and it just happens. I don’t understand it at all, but it is a good system and it works.

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Those people should speak for themsleves

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I want to know everything
I want to be everywhere
I want to fuck everyone in the world
I want to do something that matters