And i don't know where I am......I'm really confused in life...what am i doing wrong?

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

I'd love to help you MM ... but you haven't really given enough info so far ... what area of your life specifically do you feel lost in ... and if there's more than one ... just pick one to begin with ... otherwise we'll all be overwhelmed ... especially you!

Take the first left, go 1/4 mile then right, left, right , right.

OK actually (harsh but you need it)

Stop wallowing in self pity, put a big arse smile on your face and hit life running.

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FussyPucker

There are only 10 types of people in the world: Those who understand binary, and those who don't...

Sarcasm: It's not big and it's not clever...........but it's funny as fuck!

The Special One!

ohhh Merc.... I dont know really what's bothering you either, but whatever it is you'll get thru it...promise. You just keep your head up and do your best in whatever it is you're doing. That's all you can do. In everything. I am sure going to school and working can be very stressful. No, I'm not a doctor and am not the best at giving advise, but we've all had days when we just can't seem to see a good thing happening to us. Your life is in your hands. You make the most of it and enjoy every single thing you can.
You're a great guy and I'm glad you're my friend. You know how to get me if you ever need to talk.

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~Tainted Love~

All things must past (George Harrison)
Just remember that. Don't sweat the small stuff and the big stuff works out in it's own time. Take a look back in time at a period in your life that was about the same. Things changed.
If I change the way I look at things, the things I look at change.
Peace to you it does and will get better.

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Live Life, hearses don't come with luggage racks.
The second mouse always gets the cheese

You better not be doing drugs. I'll have to you!
What's the matter honey?

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

Ok Merc I'll try to give some advice here. I do hope it helps and it comes across the correct way.

Now to quote a great tv series that was on during the 90's. It was Babylon 5.

"Who are you and what do you want?"

If you know who you are and what you want, half the battle is won. If people won't accept you for the who you are and the way you are....then fuck 'em. Well not literally. Life is too short to worry about what people think of you. If you like who you and what you are that is what is important.

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My stories
An erotic story
The instructor and student
Secretary learns how to take a dicktation
The story of sister stephanie

[QUOTE=Mark Vieth]

"Who are you and what do you want?"

If you know who you are and what you want, half the battle is won.[QUOTE]


Also, stop looking! Don't put so much pressure on yourself. When you least expect it.. ..BAM.. ..it will hit you smack dab in the middle of you heart. She will feel it and you will too.

But for now...enjoy life!


And as far as the girls going for the wrong guys....It is just something we have to do so when the right one comes along well know it. Might not be at that moment but there is a time for everything.

As far as getting out of bed....just remember the girl of your dreams is out there somewhere but she may not have your address so you need to go outside and remember each day is a new chance to meet that certain someone.

Natalie

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

grneyes makes a very good point here. I found my wife when I was not looking to hook up with anyone. I didn't try to put my best face forward, so to speak, and was completely myself. She did the same thing and we fell in love. When you're you try to make it happen, it just doesn't. Any relationship you do manage to start will most likely be doomed if it stems from trying to make it happen.

Keep your chin up and work hard at being yourself and things will fall into place.

Good luck!

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Put me on wheels and I'll turn tricks.

Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

thanks for the advice ladies and gents.

very much appreicated...and i will keep those ideas in mind.

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

Count not what is lost but what is left Source: (Chinese)

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"Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead."


Live Life, hearses don't come with luggage racks.
The second mouse always gets the cheese