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Old 11-22-2004, 12:00 AM
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Exclamation My little girl is growing up...

I don't know whether to laugh or cry!!!! My little girl - my baby, started her period yesterday. She will be 11 in January. I don't know why this was such a suprise to me as I started at age 10 too but she is my baby.

I am not sure if I am ready for this next stage. I knew it was coming, we already had the other changes - bra, shaving legs, armpit hair.. lol!! She still wants me to tuck her in at night and give her a sloppy (kiss) and fluff her blankets as she is laying in bed.

I took a good long look at her today - she is going to be a beautiful young lady both outside and inside - she is growing up and it made me smile.

But still....why am I sitting here wanting to cry????
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Old 11-22-2004, 12:13 AM
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Well Chey, you're not alone. My daughter is 11 and I'm going through the same stuff. She's older than my perception of her. To me she's still 5, and I just took her to her first day of school. But, ya know, they'll always be our baby... whether they be 10 or 40. If tears should fall, let them be joyful.
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Old 11-22-2004, 12:17 AM
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((((Chey)))) and ((((darogle))))

Don't let them grow up too fast.....
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Old 11-22-2004, 12:25 AM
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(((darogle))) You are 100% correct about her always being my baby. I still get hugs & kisses in public lol - so I should be grateful!!!


(((osuche))) - I think that is what is bothering me so much. I just seemed like yesterday she was cuddling on my lap wanting to thumb wrestle or just listen to my heart beat in my chest. LOL - now she is only a few inches shorter than I am and before long will be taller. It went by soooooo fast!
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Old 11-22-2004, 12:55 AM
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My sweet little girls twin is 6 now. ………. Oh wait! That’s HER daughter that’s 6 now.
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Old 11-22-2004, 04:36 AM
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This morning, as my son took his nap, I could not help but notice just how adorable he was. Curled up upon my chest, one hand entangled in my chest hair, the other clutching my beard, he grunted and drooled his way into the Sandman’s castle. Such a happy little baby, always ready to play with daddy. Content, I drift off into sleep myself…

Cheyanne, I am crying with you as I write this. For you see, when I awakened from my nap, my cute little baby was gone. Somehow, he had been replaced by a gangly, hairy, and worldly fifteen year old. Yes, he is a very handsome lad. Still eager to do things with his old man, even though other things beckon. Intelligent too, though I will not bore you with details of his scholastic achievements or extracurricular activities. He is turning out to be everything that I could hope for him. Yet, in the bottom of my heart, I still yearn for those grubby little hands…I am sorry, I got carried away a bit.


Cherish every fleeting moment you have with her, the time goes by so damned fast.
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Old 11-22-2004, 09:45 PM
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But still....why am I sitting here wanting to cry????
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Because you are a MOM, and you are growing.
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Old 11-22-2004, 10:18 PM
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I'm not a mom, but gosh you people are all so wonderful, and I hope each of your children know how fortunate they are to have parents that cherish them.

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Old 11-23-2004, 04:51 PM
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I don't know whether to laugh or cry!!!! My little girl - my baby, started her period yesterday. She will be 11 in January. I don't know why this was such a suprise to me as I started at age 10 too but she is my baby.

I am not sure if I am ready for this next stage. I knew it was coming, we already had the other changes - bra, shaving legs, armpit hair.. lol!! She still wants me to tuck her in at night and give her a sloppy (kiss) and fluff her blankets as she is laying in bed.

I took a good long look at her today - she is going to be a beautiful young lady both outside and inside - she is growing up and it made me smile.

But still....why am I sitting here wanting to cry????


Congratulations Cheyanne,

You have brought up a very qute little girl to be a beautiful young lady.. Look at it this way.. We all grow up sometime.
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Old 11-23-2004, 06:00 PM
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All of you parents with children in or near their teen years, please get your questions ready for you will find out that they will know it all. LOL

My Babe girl is 27 and through college(twice). Now if she could just find the time to come home once in awhile. She was in Calf. last week learning to operate some new fangled machine for work. She is a lab tech in a hospital.

I do have to say the grandkids are great, you get to spoil them and then send them home to mom and dad. hehehehehe
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Old 11-23-2004, 06:42 PM
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My boy is 5 yrs old and seems he knows all the answers already.
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Old 11-23-2004, 06:50 PM
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My baby girl will be 13 in January. She now has this major attitude, thinks she controls the radio in the car, wears my make-up and lives on the phone.

She started her period this summer and has not been a very happy camper. Her cycle hasn't regulated and is starting about every 20 days. The last time she just broke down and cried saying she didn't want to be a woman. It's hard to tell your baby that she is going to be one for a very long time to come.
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Old 11-23-2004, 07:10 PM
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(((((((((Everyone))))))))))

Here I was feeling low and somewhat depressed and look at all of you who came to my rescue! Again, not that I needed the proof, but here it is, Pixies peeps are the best! What an amazing group of people.

I got to thinking after I started the thread - what was I thinking??? This is a SEX forum!!! But after reading the responses, I am glad I did. Sexuality is the topic, but this place is sooooooo much more than that!!! This place is real.

Thank you all for being there for me and helping me over my little bump in the road.....
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Old 11-23-2004, 07:24 PM
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I talked to very fine members of this place when I was deep depressed, none of the talk was sexual, and all gave me power to go on...
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Old 11-24-2004, 03:44 AM
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All our girls are married and gone; but when we see them, giving them a hug is still something most special. They've all become very beautiful yound ladies with wonderful families of their own. I'm so proud of them.

I know what you mean, Cheyanne, about sometimes just wanting to cry. I know us guys aren't suppose to, but sometimes I think about our family growing up and it does cause strong emotions inside.

(((( HUGS )))) to ya', and pass the Kleenex when you're done.
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