what are some pieces of advice you would give to someone who is a virgin

It's hard to remember that far back...lol! But seriously heychris, are you asking because you are about to embark on the journey to "the other side"? If that is the case...use a contraceptive and use comdoms as well! Never just trust that a condom is enough (they have been known to break) and never, ever have sex without one because "you KNOW the S/O is safe", or "you don't want anything between you and your love". They are unwise practices that some people have come to regret, and you want your first experiences regret free...right?

That leads me to another piece of advice. Make sure in your heart and soul that this is the right time. Don't do it for any social status or because everyone else is or from pressure from the other partner. It's not a bad thing to be a virgin. It is bad however, to compromise your values for a slice of social status or to appease another. You only get one chance to give away your virginity. Consider it a treasure and guard it as such. If you choose to share it, let it be just that...your choice!

Good luck hun!

__________________
Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

Two words: Be yourself.

CasperTG

__________________
You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

My Photos:
https://imgur.com/a/80hiRdm

I hated having to worry EVERY MONTH if I was pregnant.

__________________
~Tainted Love~

I wish I had known that.....if you choose your partner correctly, you will have a bond with them for the rest of your life. He is still my best friend, and I love him more today than I did back then.

__________________
Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I wish I had known (blank) when I was a virgin...




Lilith

__________________
Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.