I could not believe it the first time she made a pass at me but by the third time there was no doubt

If you are committed to your wife, the answer is obvious. But I guess if you are not, that is obvious also.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

Count your testicles and decide how committed you are to keeping them.

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I'd try politely telling her that I wasn't interested - in private - and mentioning that you are married and take that seriously. Then, if she doesn't take the hint, tell your wife.

By the way - if you've ignored her to date and she's still making passes, it may be because she thinks you haven't noticed. Women know that men can be obtuse sometimes. You need to leave no doubt in her mind that you're unavailable.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Huh? What do you mean by that?


Haven't had that exact situation but I've had girlfriend's best friends and my best friend's sister make passes at me. Can't say it ever got to a third time though. Definitely seems like the private conversation would be a good place to start. A lot of it depends upon how strong the communication is between you and your wife too.

That's a pretty good point that Oldfart made too.

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

I talk it over with my wife. We're poly, after all.

It's really only happened once, and that bit of extra activity didn't work out, though.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

It all depends on you...

Have fun deciding!

gotta trust ............ talk to your wife tell her about the 3 some thing maybe if shes into it you will have every guys dream 2 ladys if shes not like that tell her friend no tell her you are gonna tell your wife if she dosen't stop tough spot your in ...............wifes friend really isn't your wifes friend if your wife dosen't know about it..............................

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Two further thoughts,

One is "No, dammit!"

Two is getting her to check with your missus if it's OK.

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Once again, the knife of finely tuned logic cuts right thru to the only correct answers...

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

I would tell her to "hold that thought, and don't go ANYWHERE til I get back!"

then run to ask Mrs. WI if it's ok if I could accept the offer.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

You see I have never been seduced before by someone other than my wife .... I am sorely tempted