I have a boyfriend who I want to cyber with, but I don't know how and to compound the problem, I'm a virgin.

He's not-Online nor off. I could just ask him what he likes, but I'd really like to suprise him.

Teach me, please!

Any tips on to what to say and how to say it?

Any help will be appreciated.

go with the flow..just cuz you're a virgin doesn't mean you don't have all kinds of naughty thoughts i'm sure....the best way is to do what's comfortable for you and be open with you're thoughts...but most importantly...have fun! I'm sure the thought in general would make you're b/f sure glad he's with you!

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Kristin

If you have ever had an erotic dream or fantasy that's where I would start. Most guys seem to get off if you describe what you are wearing, even if you're not wearing it tell him you are, unless he's there he won't know. Just relax and be creative with him, as he responds you'll know what he likes and then you can give him more of what he likes. Just have fun its like a fantasy anyway.

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Read some of the wonderful erotica here and at other sites. That should certainly get your mind a-twirling with ideas. Ozkristin is right...just have fun with it. My first thought is to tell you to go with whatever you already want and desire to do with him.

Cybersex isn't an act...it's a shared fantasy. I've never done precisely the same thing with different people, so there's no formula. But it's far far from the only erotic conversation that can be had on the phone. Tell him what you fantasize about, ask him what HE'D like to do, describe what you are doing as you masterbate, just talk about anything that turns you on...and let him know you are. It's not so much a series of steps, as letting down the barriers and talking about sexy things.

Just let yourself go, and you'll find it comes naturally .

G

I worked up the nerve to initiate. I took Moonchild's advice of starting with a dream and I think that's why it came so naturally, for the most part.

I probably have some work to do. I don't know if I was typing too fast or too slow, or if when he took over the fantasy, if I responded too much or too little.

He really seemed to enjoy it and I LOVED it, so I suppose that's all that matters.

Thanks for the advice!