
10-20-2002, 03:46 PM
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Lights on or off ???
Do you like to make love in the dark or with the lights on ??
Hubby would prefer the lights on, I myself like it better in the
dark. He usually defers to me on this subject.
What about the rest or ya'll ? And Why ????
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10-20-2002, 03:54 PM
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The way I have always seen it.,...
The guy is going to like the lights on, simply because he (I) want to be able to see his lover. I know I love seeing my g/f. The woman seems to want the lights off, wanting to be able to shut out sight as a sense in order to increase touch. At least, that's my thoughts.....
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10-20-2002, 04:25 PM
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someimes spouse wants lights on and other times off, or even subtle lighting.
i do like to see her body, but that does not need spotlights.
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10-20-2002, 07:11 PM
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me & the wife likes it either way - depends on the mood
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10-20-2002, 07:14 PM
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Whichever way the lights happen to be when we have means, motive, and opportunity
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10-20-2002, 07:32 PM
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We usually light some candles. Not too bright, just subtle.
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10-20-2002, 09:44 PM
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Dear PussyWillow,
"Hubby would prefer the lights on, I myself like it better in the
dark. He usually defers to me on this subject." Well, he would, wouldn't he? After all, he's married and knows very well who's the boss.
I like some lighting but not enough to shine in our eyes. I like looking as well as licking - mmh! And besides, if you have ever watched a woman coming and felt "Wow - did I do that?" you'll know what a gift it is.
All of which reminds me of a very tasteless joke (not at all applicable to PussyWillow or any other Pixie lady).
Q: Why to married women make love in the dark?
A: Because they can stand to see their husbands having a good time.
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10-20-2002, 09:54 PM
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Either. Sometimes the sight of each other is very erotic initself. With the lights off, I focus more on the sounds and sensations....
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10-20-2002, 11:00 PM
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Do it with lights on and off
But....I'm not happy with my body image....and until i reach the image i want...definately more comfortable with them off
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10-21-2002, 04:01 AM
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I love the lights off.....It makes it hot for me the dark.:redghost:
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10-21-2002, 05:31 AM
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Quote:
Pussy Willow: "Do you like to make love in the dark or with the lights on ?? "
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Yes, I do. I also like it when they, the lights, are only dimmed. 
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10-21-2002, 06:20 AM
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10-21-2002, 08:40 AM
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Its not as a simple as light and dark, the black middle of the night is great, but then the addition of just one simple candle can make all the difference. But we cannot forget about the brightly lit bedroom for the quicky on saturday afternoon.
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10-21-2002, 08:52 AM
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I am a fan of the single candle,
but like most will defer to the moment.
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10-21-2002, 09:06 AM
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Candle light....something about shadows on the wall. Very sensual.
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