If you had a long-distance friend and playmate online, would you want to hear about it if they had an in-person sexual encounter? Would you want to know the details?

If you were the one who got lucky, would you want to tell them about it? Would you want to give them the specifics?

On one hand, it could be exciting, and lead to another good session of whatever it is that you do.

On the other, even in a playful online relationship, there is the possibility of jealousy and hurt feelings.