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Morals or culture?
I read a lot of opinions on cheating. Why do think it is hurtful for the one you love to have relations with another? Morals? Culture? Possesion,property??????What drives us?
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01-11-2003, 06:13 PM
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The beating heart and the depths of a soul................when you bear that to someone and promise it forever........and they do the same....................
Cheating...........stabs your soul!
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01-11-2003, 06:19 PM
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01-11-2003, 10:20 PM
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01-12-2003, 12:16 PM
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Re: Morals or culture?
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Originally posted by denny
Why do think it is hurtful for the one you love to have relations with another?
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Well, from a standpoint of polyamory, I can answer this question, if it is slightly re-phrased:
Why is it hurtful for the one you love to violate whatever boundries (explicit or implied) you have agreed to?
The answer overall, seem to be this: it's a violation of trust. That sort of violation, whether sexual, social, economic, or legal is always hurtful.
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01-12-2003, 12:21 PM
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Well said, Gekko. I think a related issue would be where your trust lies. Do you trust your s/o not to have relations outside, or do you trust your s/o that when s/he *does* have outside relations, that s/he will "return."
It's all in where you decide, as a couple, where those boundaries are found.
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