Well..the suffering has ended. As of around 1 am EST, Daddy passed. That I can accept. I had the hardest time with watching him lay there on the ventilator. Even harder when they pulled the ventilator---that is NOT something anyone should ever have to witness, especially of a really close parent/loved one. I could not deal with watching him struggle. But, he was only taking one breath for every 11 or 12 the machine gave him. So, I know he's in a much better place and is no longer hurting. And this, I can accept.






But on a very positive note, my baby sis has received some type of scholarship to the college in GA that is near her home. That will help her a lot, no matter how much it's for.

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(((((((((((SD))))))))))))

I'm so sorry for your loss - and angry that they did not warn you what to expect when they removed the ventilator...I can imagine that was very hard.

You're very brave, and (if it's any consolation at all) I personally, think you did the right thing by him. Sometimes the right decisions are the hardest.

Take care of yourselves

Lou
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Fruit flies like a banana"

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Oh Shadow dancer,

YOu are all in my prayers. I know the passing of a loved one is a hard thing but you just have to remember they are in such a better place. They dont hurt anymore. There is no suffering. There is only peace.

Even though it is hard...celebrate their life. Look around and see how many people their lives have touched. That is the sum of what they did with their short time they were here.

My thoughts are with you.


OH and congrats to your sister...that will help so much.

Natalie

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"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

((hugs))

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((hugs)) for you SD - I know I don't know you, but am thinking of you at this sad time and wishing you strength and peace

love and warm wishes
cavegirl

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Si à travers nos veines coule encore le sang...
Si dans les jeux d'enfants on entend encore l'accent...
Si nous sentons encore l'espoir de nos grands-parents...
Si dans les voiles du large souffle encore le vent...
Y'a jamais eu de Grand Dérangement.

((((SD))))

May you find peace in memories and comfort in the love of friends and family.

Extending deepest sympathy to you and family on the passing of your Dad.



Congrats to little sis!!

(((((((((((((((((((((((ShadowDancer))))))))))))))) ))))))))

You're in my thoughts.

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No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

Shadowdancer i am soo sorry..

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"Tomorrow is another day" Scarlette O'hara monologue..

socrates last words.. " i drank what?!"

((SD)) - our thoughts and prayers are with you...

it's tough to lose anyone, let alone a parent, but seeing them suffer is worse...

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(((((( SD ))))))

One day, our hope is we'll all be together again in a much, much better place. Our prayers are with you and your family!

ShadowDancer,

My condolences madam. May you father rest in peace, and you recover soon from your loss.

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(((((SD)))))

Oh sweety! To be able to say goodbye at the final moment will be your salvation in the days to come. Regardless of the circumstance, rest assured that your presence was felt and it helped to ease the passing of your "daddy".

May all of the sweetest thoughts of your dad overshadow the sorrow of his death. I hope that your mourning is swift and the happy memories of him make you smile at times when you need them most...now and in the years to come!

(((((To you and your family)))))

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