I mean something to do with sex, something you like, but you're afraid to ask for ?

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I'm pretty open about sex. lol

I think the only thing I haven't come right out and stated is something she's already pretty aware of.

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And what would that possibly been, if your so inclined to answer?

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I think that may be more of a 'who'.

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Nope, because if you can't talk about it you shouldn't be doing it. Communication is the key.

I think it can be harder for women to ask for what they want in bed....unfortunately, in the early throes of a sexual relationship, we worry we'll be judged a 'slut' or a 'freak' if we have unusual tastes. I have been more experimental (and experienced) than pretty much all of my partners, and while I've never been too afraid to ask for what I want, I've always gone about it carefully, for fear of scaring the person off by my requests.

I think it's important to sound someone out gently rather than issuing a list of sexual demands, unless of course that's something both partners are into - personally I rather like the idea of being issued with a list of 'demands'!!!

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Carefully does it, certainly. There have been things I've been hesitant about asking for, but as soon as I make it clear that I don't mind if it doesn't ahppen and that it'd only happen if my OH was entirely comfortable with it, then things work out well.

There is one thing I've never explicitally asked for and he knows what it is. I wont ask though, because I know it's the one thing he'd never be comfortable with.

I've asked when I am not sure where Mr Osuche's boundaries are, but I'm pretty sure some things are off of the table that I really like doing. So I make the best of it...and every few years I check in, just to make sure his bounds haven't shifted.

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Same for me...I check periodically to see if boundaries have changed. There are things I like that I know she doesn't.

Maybe if I distract Mrs. WI with your giant pecker?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Even thought my girl is almost as freaky as myself there are still somethings that I know she wont go for. But what can you do.

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Yes there is something to do with giving him oral, but I will keep that a secret for now in case he reads it...