I need some advice about getting sexually involved with my step-dad who is 15 years older than me.I've wanted him for more than ten years and it's driving me crazy. This would be done without my mom's consent or knowledge.But is very do able.I'm divorced and live in the same town.Should I seduce him? or Get over him.This is more then just infatuation. I want him so bad.

No matter how the fantasy is... I say stay away and get over the idea... nope... spells DISASTER in ALL sorts of ways....

Got any daughters? Imagine 20 years down the road.... and them carrying out this on their future step father... imagine the betrayal...


NOPE... not a good idea... and believe me.. I don't say this because I am prude or close minded... just believe that there are some lines that aren't meant to be crossed.

Bad idea.

jenna's got it right on as far as I'm concerned... Stay away.

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Just curious how you feel about your mother? It seems to me to show a great lack of respect for her so I am wondering.

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I have to agree with the others...... There has to be someone else you can find. And he's not a very good husband to your mom if he'll do it either. This will only lead to problems.

Sorry.

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That is soooooo not a good idea....i'm with Lilith on this one as well....you are certainly not showing your mother any respect at all!

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First...I must say Welcum to Pixies eat_her690!

Now...on with my opinion/advice!

KABOOM!

^^^^that's the end result of a relationship of this nature. I played this over in my head in many different scenarios and not once did a scenario end with, "I understand the attraction my darling daughter. I give you and your "dad" my blessing. I'll just find another man for myself".

As I read your query I thought to ask EXACTLY what Lilith and Alasse put forth. Do you love your mother? Do you care about her feelings? Do you know there are some lines we should just NEVER cross?

And, I have more questions! Is your town out of available men? Did you ever want to stick your hand in a fire or jump off a cliff but had the restraint because you knew it wouldn't be good for you or anyone involved in your life?

But then...we might be assuming too much. I should first ask...Is your step-dad divorced from your mother for years now? Or...does your mother still assume she has a happy marriage? Is your mother still alive?

To be continued as soon as you can answer some of my questions......

Hurry back! Please don't leave us hanging!

P.S. You could have just really wanted an official okie dokie to ease your mind, huh?

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This is a disaster waiting to happen.....don't even go there!

Hell no, this is such a great idea.

If ever you wanted to break up a family, earn the condemnation of your community, spend the rest of your life disowned by everyone who loves you and not get to keep the object of your desire because all the above has poisoned the relationship beyond bearing, go right ahead.

You are the captain of your life-ship and if headlong rushes at reefs and minefields is your avowed desire, who are we to stand in your way?

We will not, repeat not, mention all the collateral damage this would entail.

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Thanks for all the great advice.My head wasn't doing the thinking.You've all been fantastic with the honest,from the heart responses.Time to move on.Live and learn.Glad I learned before I made a big mistake.Bless you all.

You should remember too........








......... I'm not related in ANY way and very seduceable .

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