First I just want to say hello to everyone, old and new. It's been a long time since I've made a post. I'm a LONG time member, but just haven't been around much. Have a question, looking for feedback, and thought of you all as a great way to get it.

My boyfriend and I are very experimental. Most anything isn't off limits and I've found that I really enjoy stimulating him anally, and he, even without admitting, really enjoys receiving. A rock hard cock in my mouth and never been harder cumming certainly speak for themselves. I've started doing some research on the fine art of rimming. How to do this or that, what feels good. Currently it usually happens as I'm giving him a bj. I do a lot of licking. Making my way to his puckered hole, then lick, flick, and dart my tongue around. and/also have been known to rim him with my finger, then slide it in and fuck him while sucking him off. He's always laid on his back. I haven't asked him to lay on his stomach, or get more on all fours with me behind him yet, but I've been thinking of ways to introduce seduction from behind.

So, comments? Experiences? Suggestions? Stories? I'd love whatever feedback people have to offer. I'm looking to heighten his experience as much as possible because I love getting this man off as much as he does me.

Thanks everyone.

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Welcome home Jenny. You are one of the people that made this place real for me, for which I’ve become very grateful. I’ve missed you.

It sounds like you found a very good thing for both of you. So glad to hear.

Small toys are a good starting place when you are as comfortable as it sounds. Letting him see and hear what it does for you. I can tell you he WILL be a MOST delighted guy. :wobble:

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*drool*i'd love to add something but i'm feeling light headed


(ps...hello, jenny )

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wyndhy, when you get a chance, please do post. I'm very excited about this idea.

PantyFanatic,

It was great to sign onto the forums last night and see you still on here!! I love Pixies.

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Hi, JennyD. Not sure if I remember when you last posted, but do want to welcome you back. Love seeing our Pixie family stay in touch.

A woman after my heart. Rimming is a great addition to great sex play! If you enjoy it and he enjoys it go for it. I know for me it makes the orgasms that much more intense. Just my :cents:

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What do you love done to you? What gets you going? What's giving you that OMG orgasim? Details!!

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mm k
i say just nudge and guide him slowly... a leg pull here, some pressure on his back there...until he's in the position you want him.

his body language will tell you if he's uncomfortable even if he doesn't say it out loud.

or.

you could just say "get on your knees. now."

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

Dayum, I gots to get me a gf!

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Hubby loves to be rimmed and loves my finger but wants nothing to do with toys. Introduce them slowly if you decide to. Lotsa guys love them.

Welcome back - we've missed you

Most guys would die for a lady like yourself. Just do what comes naturally and feels right between you!

I would think most guys would love the idea - I certainly would. However, not all folks are alike. My thoughts are in the nudge/turn him group.

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to bad there's no 'on all fours' smilie.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose

Speaking from a guy who really enjoys getting rimmed, i would suggest you get your bf on his hands and knees with you behind him. In this position you will be able to lick his asshole, perenum, balls, and eventually his come when you get there. Have fun with that one. What a lucky guy he is.