11-21-2004, 03:56 PM
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I can’t let the ladies gang up on you alone.
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… 60yr old man… happly married … i like sex … sex on the side…. is this wrong … something diff... i like oral … my wife dont …
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Being too close to your place in life, I thought you may want to hear from a guy. (Well maybe not ) lol
You can see the parts of your statement that caught my eye. ^^ It’s not about sex of any kind being right or wrong for anybody but you. Your situation involves another person and has to be looked at from there. How does any activity, sexual or otherwise, affect being “happily married”? Sometimes it may be something you can enjoy together. When that isn’t the case, you look for something you can be pleased the other is enjoying without you being involved. Whether it’s sewing dresses, building race cars, bowling or blow jobs, if it is truly unacceptable to your partner, it will affect the “happy” part of your relationship. Now you have to decide the value to you of 21 years of being happily married. What is it your partner enjoys? Can you really enjoy it with them? Can you be happy having your partner enjoy it without you? These are important questions any partnership has to answer….. especially in your bedroom.
Good luck pal, and I hope your discussions with the only one that counts, takes you to places you both can be thrilled about.
I guess I have to agree with the ladies ……………………….. again.
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