I've recently become involved with a lady who isn't as sexually experienced as I am. I know I'm a bit on the rough side so it's not surprising she commented on it once or twice. The problem I am having is that she feels there isn't a connection. The sex is good but she feels bad that she comes faster and more fequent than I and that she may not be doing something right. How can I convince her that she isn't and deal with the problem we've been having? Also how would you suggest she get over her inexperience and learn to branch out into new areas of sexual expression?

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